OVERCOMING THROUGH THE REAL MEANING OF HELP MEET

Overcoming through the real meaning of help meet

Dear Friends

I must carry on writing hoping it helps some of you…

For so long we have been told that a female is only to be a help mate for her husband…which means not having any dream/ambition of her own ...and only being there to serve her husband so he could fulfill his dreams and ambitions….

However as the video above explains such was not and could not be the real meaning a fair loving Source Divine could give…to these words...

Jesus quoted many times….In Source Divine...there is no Jew, no Greek, no slave no master...no female no male...as each one of us is an equal dignified precious creature made at the image of Source Divine/Universalove...

In fact the true intended meaning was for a female to ...on top of being her own fulfilled self, realizing her own dreams as well ... also be a helpmeet to her husband….and for females in general to be helpmeet for males…

But what does it mean to be a helpmeet and not a helpmate ...what is the crucial difference?

As the video of Joel and Kathy explains very well above… being a help mate is being a kind of slave/servant inferior to males whilst being a help meet means

almost the opposite!!!

What being a help meet truly means:

A wife has been uniquely gifted by Source Divine to help her husband to become Christlike...which is to grow spiritually at the highest spiritual mature stature of Universalove/Source Divine.

Pistis Sophia...or proverb 8 in the Bible...shows us that the nature of Divine Wisdom and the Ruach Kodesh...Holy Spirit…is feminine…the Shekina….loving presence of Source Divine/Universalove is feminine too...

So that far from being an inferior position of second class citizen….

as falsely twisted words implied since purposely wrongly interpreted to fulfill an oppressive patriarchal agenda…

it is precisely at the contrary to put females on a gracious pedestal from where males owe them respect….

Psalm 16 tells us I set the Lord always before me...meaning a Man must continually focus on Source Divine wisdom and loving presence…

So as we are supposed to keep loving presence of Universalove/Source Divine at the front of our mind all the time, a man is supposed to keep his wife at the forefront of his mind at all time with reverence and awe….

Remaining in the presence of his wife as much as possible summarize the word meet…

The word help is often quoted as coming from the Lord…

The Bible portrays Source Divine as
 The easier, the helper, the deliverer...
These are titles given to Source Divine ...

If a man is ready to sin Source Divine will help him by saying dont do it…

this is what is called sin conviction...

So his wife must help a man by helping him not to sin

Source Divine is not subsverviant … to man as we all know….

So that a wife put in this strong spiritual position cant be either...

So many religious males order women to shut up ….or not to play the

Holy Spirit...or not to try to change their husband …

Whilst its in fact the job of the wife to bring her husband in a place of transformation and change just like Source Divine would if walking next to your husband...

Unfortunately many females sometimes out of legitimate fear and other times out of cowardice accepted and still accept to be treated like slaves/servants and at the same time do not care to truly help their husband/male partner as they should….

In some cultures and sadly even sometimes in the West females are victims of domestic violence daily and are totally at the mercy of their cruel abusive

partner/husband...Its then understandable that legitimate fear prevents them from

keeping their divine gracious wise pedestal from where to help their male partner….
when their lives are in danger...

However others who are not so despondant or co dependants simply dont care

enough or dont love enough their husband/partner to bother breaking social taboos to activate their spiritual power and duty towards their husband….

Many for instance allow their husband's continual affairs, adultery ...sexual addiction totally lethal to them to carry on instead of lovingly warning him, taking care of him to see him through and out of this destructive vice…

They are maybe concerned of losing a social position or of being seen as domeneering and such concerns are more important to them than the well being

and eternal salvation of their husband…

But this is exactly the same as allowing your male partner to suffer a smoking/ drinking/ drug addiction….

The results is that many males who go freely from a female to another are more and more difficult to satisfy and are looking continually for more unhealthy excitement ...in novelty ...such as becoming a peodophyle...or to practice sadistic sexual rituals...or trying out homosexuality as another type of amusement….etc etc....

They never grow up and instead of growing spiritually decline to the condition of a rotten spoilt child only knowing to cultivating primitive tyrannical male egotistic patterns firstly desotrying himself then as a chain everyone else around….

Yes I maintain many males do these things SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY CAN!!!

Which means that NOONE cares enough to tell them NO YOU CANT….

No you cant have me and this ….

You cant have me and continual affairs….

You cant have me without respecting me…

You cant have me as your servant….etc etc etc…

Far from giving this message to their husband many females who boast to be good wives are doing all the opposite by what they believe keeping the spoilt child

happy according to twisted and false social or religious standards….

The gravity of this situation is that the bad behaviour of geriatric spoilt male

child is not only affecting his wife, his children but all of us!!!!

It is bad enough for a mature wife and their grown up children to endure the despisable indignified spectacle of seeing their old father abandoning all responsibility to ridicule himself by dating

young girls from the age of their own grand children…
A famous French singer has confessed lately that because of his addiction in having sexual affairs with younger girls not only it has cost him his many marriages but
he lost all dignity ...Also he got immensely depressed as he chronically was dumped and
mocked by the younger girls who used him and left him to go with younger males
their age....As we see in the video mockery of fifty shade of grey....what matters most
to young girls is the money/social status of older males but these senior males get easily manipulated to believe what they wish to believe ...after its too late ....and it is very often that they will remain on their own ...despised and broke ....

Although some males have serial affairs with young girls without leaving their wives, they not only hurt younger and younger girls by sexualizing them sometimes before the age but they also lose their own self respect....as the one of their family...

However it is even far worse to see our planet destroyed by physical and moral

pollution through child sex trafficking and all sorts of female sex trafficking

increasing more and more to satisfy more and more addictions from senior males…

Because Senior Males are still self proclaiming themselves in charge of our planet

they force mass audiences to qualify what is wrong to be right through the brain washing of the media controlled by themselves….unfortunately all the power and money in the world cannot make wrong right….

We know how far goes the policy of the ostrich...not further than the shalowness

of burrying your head in the sand….whilst the Universe carries on in the Real World!
No matter what some dictator can keep proclaiming!!!!

This is not only morally wrong and will end up in a more sever self punishment for these senior males in power as they will have to reap the consequences of their actions as the real universe sees it ….

But one of the main issue is that when their bodies will leave their eternal soul...they will rot in a terrible spiritual destination ...mirroring all their dark actions during their stay on earth….

All that partly because us females dont have the courage to do our real work and

duty towards them….

Dear Sisters....PLEASE DONT FEAR ANY MORE….

LOVE INSTEAD!!!!

If your brother is suffering from any huge addiction...its also your duty to open his eyes….and care enough to help him heal inside to recover and walk on the right direction for his own good and wellfare….

Of course if you faithfully and bravely warn your male partner and he refuses to hear… then you might have to leave the relationship if his addiction renders this relationship not mutually respectable any longer….

An intelligent responsible male will welcome his wife as his help meet...
Psalm 16 explains when I set Universalove/Source Divine presence...helpmeet...always before
me at my right hand...I shall not be moved!!!
He actually will be grateful to receive the help he needs to grow this beautiful, successfull,
wise spiritual being is meant to become...to become REAL! Forever!

Joel and Kathy advice wives to leave their husband who insists to treat them as slaves/servants and refuse to hear their legitimate concerns….

I suggest that leaving should be only the last resort….but if no change occurs …

one must have this courage !

Since when you leave the relationship you make the final statement….

I am worth more ….you are worth more ….our relationship is worth more….

than the sad decay you impose to these three sacred realities..

At least if nothing else….your absence will teach males RESPECT !

They will learn they cant have their cake and eat it…

They cant have you and keep trashing you and themselves...because you deserve
a lot more than a trashy relationship!!!
Psalm 15 tells us to honor Source Divine and each other...
Without mutual respect and honor....no relationship can be beneficial...

And this is already half of the work done….

I hope this helps

Much love

sister lucy