OVERCOMING THROUGH THE REAL MEANING OF HELP MEET

Overcoming through the real meaning of help meet

Dear Friends

I must carry on writing hoping it helps some of you…

For so long we have been told that a female is only to be a help mate for her husband…which means not having any dream/ambition of her own ...and only being there to serve her husband so he could fulfill his dreams and ambitions….

However as the video above explains such was not and could not be the real meaning a fair loving Source Divine could give…to these words...

Jesus quoted many times….In Source Divine...there is no Jew, no Greek, no slave no master...no female no male...as each one of us is an equal dignified precious creature made at the image of Source Divine/Universalove...

In fact the true intended meaning was for a female to ...on top of being her own fulfilled self, realizing her own dreams as well ... also be a helpmeet to her husband….and for females in general to be helpmeet for males…

But what does it mean to be a helpmeet and not a helpmate ...what is the crucial difference?

As the video of Joel and Kathy explains very well above… being a help mate is being a kind of slave/servant inferior to males whilst being a help meet means

almost the opposite!!!

What being a help meet truly means:

A wife has been uniquely gifted by Source Divine to help her husband to become Christlike...which is to grow spiritually at the highest spiritual mature stature of Universalove/Source Divine.

Pistis Sophia...or proverb 8 in the Bible...shows us that the nature of Divine Wisdom and the Ruach Kodesh...Holy Spirit…is feminine…the Shekina….loving presence of Source Divine/Universalove is feminine too...

So that far from being an inferior position of second class citizen….

as falsely twisted words implied since purposely wrongly interpreted to fulfill an oppressive patriarchal agenda…

it is precisely at the contrary to put females on a gracious pedestal from where males owe them respect….

Psalm 16 tells us I set the Lord always before me...meaning a Man must continually focus on Source Divine wisdom and loving presence…

So as we are supposed to keep loving presence of Universalove/Source Divine at the front of our mind all the time, a man is supposed to keep his wife at the forefront of his mind at all time with reverence and awe….

Remaining in the presence of his wife as much as possible summarize the word meet…

The word help is often quoted as coming from the Lord…

The Bible portrays Source Divine as
 The easier, the helper, the deliverer...
These are titles given to Source Divine ...

If a man is ready to sin Source Divine will help him by saying dont do it…

this is what is called sin conviction...

So his wife must help a man by helping him not to sin

Source Divine is not subsverviant … to man as we all know….

So that a wife put in this strong spiritual position cant be either...

So many religious males order women to shut up ….or not to play the

Holy Spirit...or not to try to change their husband …

Whilst its in fact the job of the wife to bring her husband in a place of transformation and change just like Source Divine would if walking next to your husband...

Unfortunately many females sometimes out of legitimate fear and other times out of cowardice accepted and still accept to be treated like slaves/servants and at the same time do not care to truly help their husband/male partner as they should….

In some cultures and sadly even sometimes in the West females are victims of domestic violence daily and are totally at the mercy of their cruel abusive

partner/husband...Its then understandable that legitimate fear prevents them from

keeping their divine gracious wise pedestal from where to help their male partner….
when their lives are in danger...

However others who are not so despondant or co dependants simply dont care

enough or dont love enough their husband/partner to bother breaking social taboos to activate their spiritual power and duty towards their husband….

Many for instance allow their husband's continual affairs, adultery ...sexual addiction totally lethal to them to carry on instead of lovingly warning him, taking care of him to see him through and out of this destructive vice…

They are maybe concerned of losing a social position or of being seen as domeneering and such concerns are more important to them than the well being

and eternal salvation of their husband…

But this is exactly the same as allowing your male partner to suffer a smoking/ drinking/ drug addiction….

The results is that many males who go freely from a female to another are more and more difficult to satisfy and are looking continually for more unhealthy excitement ...in novelty ...such as becoming a peodophyle...or to practice sadistic sexual rituals...or trying out homosexuality as another type of amusement….etc etc....

They never grow up and instead of growing spiritually decline to the condition of a rotten spoilt child only knowing to cultivating primitive tyrannical male egotistic patterns firstly desotrying himself then as a chain everyone else around….

Yes I maintain many males do these things SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY CAN!!!

Which means that NOONE cares enough to tell them NO YOU CANT….

No you cant have me and this ….

You cant have me and continual affairs….

You cant have me without respecting me…

You cant have me as your servant….etc etc etc…

Far from giving this message to their husband many females who boast to be good wives are doing all the opposite by what they believe keeping the spoilt child

happy according to twisted and false social or religious standards….

The gravity of this situation is that the bad behaviour of geriatric spoilt male

child is not only affecting his wife, his children but all of us!!!!

It is bad enough for a mature wife and their grown up children to endure the despisable indignified spectacle of seeing their old father abandoning all responsibility to ridicule himself by dating

young girls from the age of their own grand children…
A famous French singer has confessed lately that because of his addiction in having sexual affairs with younger girls not only it has cost him his many marriages but
he lost all dignity ...Also he got immensely depressed as he chronically was dumped and
mocked by the younger girls who used him and left him to go with younger males
their age....As we see in the video mockery of fifty shade of grey....what matters most
to young girls is the money/social status of older males but these senior males get easily manipulated to believe what they wish to believe ...after its too late ....and it is very often that they will remain on their own ...despised and broke ....

Although some males have serial affairs with young girls without leaving their wives, they not only hurt younger and younger girls by sexualizing them sometimes before the age but they also lose their own self respect....as the one of their family...

However it is even far worse to see our planet destroyed by physical and moral

pollution through child sex trafficking and all sorts of female sex trafficking

increasing more and more to satisfy more and more addictions from senior males…

Because Senior Males are still self proclaiming themselves in charge of our planet

they force mass audiences to qualify what is wrong to be right through the brain washing of the media controlled by themselves….unfortunately all the power and money in the world cannot make wrong right….

We know how far goes the policy of the ostrich...not further than the shalowness

of burrying your head in the sand….whilst the Universe carries on in the Real World!
No matter what some dictator can keep proclaiming!!!!

This is not only morally wrong and will end up in a more sever self punishment for these senior males in power as they will have to reap the consequences of their actions as the real universe sees it ….

But one of the main issue is that when their bodies will leave their eternal soul...they will rot in a terrible spiritual destination ...mirroring all their dark actions during their stay on earth….

All that partly because us females dont have the courage to do our real work and

duty towards them….

Dear Sisters....PLEASE DONT FEAR ANY MORE….

LOVE INSTEAD!!!!

If your brother is suffering from any huge addiction...its also your duty to open his eyes….and care enough to help him heal inside to recover and walk on the right direction for his own good and wellfare….

Of course if you faithfully and bravely warn your male partner and he refuses to hear… then you might have to leave the relationship if his addiction renders this relationship not mutually respectable any longer….

An intelligent responsible male will welcome his wife as his help meet...
Psalm 16 explains when I set Universalove/Source Divine presence...helpmeet...always before
me at my right hand...I shall not be moved!!!
He actually will be grateful to receive the help he needs to grow this beautiful, successfull,
wise spiritual being is meant to become...to become REAL! Forever!

Joel and Kathy advice wives to leave their husband who insists to treat them as slaves/servants and refuse to hear their legitimate concerns….

I suggest that leaving should be only the last resort….but if no change occurs …

one must have this courage !

Since when you leave the relationship you make the final statement….

I am worth more ….you are worth more ….our relationship is worth more….

than the sad decay you impose to these three sacred realities..

At least if nothing else….your absence will teach males RESPECT !

They will learn they cant have their cake and eat it…

They cant have you and keep trashing you and themselves...because you deserve
a lot more than a trashy relationship!!!
Psalm 15 tells us to honor Source Divine and each other...
Without mutual respect and honor....no relationship can be beneficial...

And this is already half of the work done….

I hope this helps

Much love

sister lucy

OVERCOMING BY GROWING SPIRTUAL FEMININE VIRTUES...

Dear Friends,

 I carry on part 2 of THERE IS NO SHORT CUT TO FEMININE LOVING WISDOM... 
because I am struggling with technical issues or from my computer or from blogger software
sorry!

WE WILL OVERCOME TYRANNICAL PRIMITIVE MALE EGOS BY

GROWING SPIRITUAL FEMININE VIRTUES....



 The story of the scorpio and the tortoise
A scorpion and a tortoise became such fast friends that they took a vow that they would never separate. So when it happened that one of them was obliged to leave his native land, the other promised to go with him. They had traveled only a short distance when they came to a wide river. The scorpion was now greatly troubled.
"Alas," he said, "you, my friend, can easily swim, but how can a poor scorpion like me ever get across this stream?"
"Never fear," replied the tortoise; "only place yourself squarely on my broad back and I will carry you safely over."
No sooner was the scorpion settled on the tortoise's broad back, than the tortoise crawled into the water and began to swim. Halfway across he was startled by a strange rapping on his back, which made him ask the scorpion what he was doing.
"Doing?" answered the scorpion. "I am whetting my sting to see if it is possible to pierce your hard shell."
"Ungrateful friend," responded the tortoise, "it is well that I have it in my power both to save myself and to punish you as you deserve." And straightway he sank his back below the surface and shook off the scorpion into the water.








 IT WILL TAKE A LONG LONG TIME ....TO REEDUCATE POLLUTED MALES MINDS FROM THE FALSE STATEMENT THAT THEY ALONE ARE TO BE IN CHARGE BY BIRTH RIGHT OF EVERYTHING IN A TYRANNICAL WAY ON OUR PLANET! AND THAT FEMALES ARE ONLY THERE TO SERVE THEM....

Yes it takes time ….its true...as so many males and even 

those who try their best to be a good man….have been 

influenced by centuries of tradition teaching them falsely 

that females are only objects/inferior slaves there to serve 

them….and not equal human beings with their own dreams 

and wishes to be loved and respected for whom they are 

instead of used and abused as slaves…

Many males are still sabotaging their wives/partners 

dream out of pure male jealousy because they 

unconsciouly feel they must teach females their inferior 

place in society….starting with their marriage...

Many males are still putting their dreams and wants 

first 

at the expense of the ones of their wives/partners...and 

demand a continual submissive service to their needs….

The vilest example nowadays of such attitude is the 

disguisement some males use...even some religious 

males...saying they sent their wives to work because they 

respect their equality…

In fact...one can witness more than once that in religious 

families males are now bullying their wives forcing them to 

work out of the home to bring money and take care of their 

financial needs whilst still demanding of them to take care 

of 

their domestic needs at home and the ones of their 

children….

What was at first an instrument of liberation used by 

feminist females is now used by tyrannical males as a new 

weapon of abuse and torture to exploit more cruelly and 

severely their wives….

Some females have found an easy solution to this refusal 

from many males to respect females equality…

They leave their husbands/partners and remain on their own 

or they keep rotating from one partner to another without a 

truly valid reason….

I am not saying that females should remain with their 

husband/partner when he is abusive...at the contrary...I 

believe that the false biblical interpretation that only the 

female is bound until his death to her husband is false and 

invented only to keep females under male ego tyranny…as it 

was wicked to present only the female who committed 

adultery to be stoned to death whilst the command was 

aimed at both male and female...in such situation...

I strongly advice females not to remain in abusive 

relationships…

whether this is a physical abuse or a severe psychological 

abuse…

As far as physical abuse is concerned, any abuse even minor 

should be a warning that greater abuse will occur and be an 

alarm ticking the time to leave...has come…

But as far as mental abuse is concerned, we all unfortunately 

can abuse each other in a minor way every day without 

willing because none of us is perfect...hence we need to 

forgive and co bare with each other in love...but when a 

repeated “severe”psychological abuse occurs then its time to 

leave to protect ourselves...if our warned partner refuses 

therapy or any other mean to heal to improve the 

relationship….

So I am not preaching to remain married because of a 

legalistic religious command!

I believe that true marriage of love is for life...even eternal... 

and one who departs or betray such marriage is guilty 

towards Universalove/Divine Source but firstly towards self!

However when there is no true love in an union ...whether it 

was an arranged union by families or social demands… or a 

mistake from a fatal immature attraction….

One cannot call this marriage ...because there was never true love in it!!!!

Unfortunately religious males bossing around and 

condemning divorced people who remarried are often 

themselves unloving in their religious unions to their wives 

and impose them a daily cycle of humiliations/violence etc 

Some very often end up committing adultery with younger 

females leading them to divorce their own wives for a 

younger prostitute model totally opposite to the description 

of the female modesty and sacrifices they imposed to they 

older wives for decades….

If you have been saddened by having to leave a union you 

hoped to be sacred and loving for a lifetime...you know the 

terrible pain of divorce and the immense sense of crushing 

failure one genuine soul can feel about this...so one does not 

need continual whipping and condemnation on top from 

churchy bitter people to feel bad about oneself...for 

failing….

But it takes two to tango and what one has to understand is 

that two people are not failures in themselves... however 

what often fails is the COMBINATION between two 

wounded people

I still feel its because these people were not right for each 

other from the beginning because if they would have been, 

they would have overcome all through loving real sacred 

marriage between soul mates...

Sadly one can see this very rarely but some couples seemed 

to have been married in heaven whilst others in hell…

Some people combined so well with each other because they 

were right for each other and truly married in heaven 

because they were truly soul mates…

However others make mistakes in recognizing their true soul 

mate or seem to have a difficulty to finding their true soul 

mate…

for all sorts of factors too long to explain here...

Instead of condemning ...we should support those who seem 

to fail but keep on trying to do things in a decent manner…

seeking a sacred meaningful life long union rather than 

superficial meetings and fornication….

I encourage you to remain with your husband/male partner 

when

there is no severe psychological abuse or physical 

abuse...because it is only in uniting deeply the feminine and 

the masculine that we will find true harmony…

As much as it is hard at times to help our male partners to 

change the way they see females and our role in their lives…

we must keep on trying with love and great patience... day 

after day…

Yes some females have sacrificed their lives wrongly for a 

male dictator and this is not what I am asking you to do….

But there is a part of sacrifice to any loving revolution…

Imposing a violent revolution will never succeed!

Simply one cannot call it revolution then because it is only 

using the same weapons than the abusers in charge to take 

their place!!! and not a true revolution at all!!!

We need to accept sometimes that there is a long way to the 

new woman…

which is that some self sacrifice will be required of us…

Those who refuse it and hasten things by force will not help 

spiritual feminine virtues to grow but keep on destroying 

them and erase their input in our society….

YES IT IS TRUE THAT SAD RECURRENT PATTERNS 

STILL OCCUR IN OUR SOCIETY

 as some males purposely choose a caring devoted wife to 

take care of their needs but they forget to mention when 

marrying that they consider their birth right to sabotage all 

her personal dreams putting theirs first and that they have a 

secret hidden agenda to have as many affairs as they please 

in her back...then when they will find she looks older they 

have planned from the beginning... to throw the lemon after 

having pressed it for decades, divorce her and marry a 

yonger model…

Friends this then becomes a one sided criminal agenda from 

the male partner and not the fault of his poor wife who did 

all her best to make it work not knowing how she was lied to 

and trapped in his monstruous hidden agenda from the 

beginning…

Unfortunately many males do this simply because they can!!!!

If you have been victimized and abused this way and you 

now think its to late for you ...so you are depressed and feel 

suicidal

because your former male partner left you following such 

monstruous pattern...and he even tries now to push your 

children against you with his new younger partner etc etc

Take heart Dear Sister, because you are beautiful and 

innocent … you have loved loyally and done your best to be 

a good wife…

however you were fooled before day one and lied to…

It's never too late for you to start a new although I can 

understand that feeling older and so devastated makes it

tremendously more difficult in such a society as ours...for

a female…

But know one thing very very important...all the love you 

gave

is written in your heart forever and written in our hearts 

forever…as in the heart of the universe...

You did more than your share to nurture our universe 

with positive energy…

Although it's unfair you did not get any reward for it from 

the person who was meant to love you in return and care for you…

know that Universalove/Source Divine values the love you 

gave and that you are in return very much loved…

You will always be...whilst those who betrayed you used you 

walked all over you will ...receive the terrible consequences 

of their actions through Universal Justice at the right time…

Yes it seems that some macchiavellian senior males using 

their older wives and dumping them for a younger model 

live happy days with their younger partner...on top our 

society usually praises the new couple and blames the first 

older wife who had sacrificed her younger days to help her 

husband to succeed…

Such injustice is only wordly and satanic but it is not 

approved by Source Divine who knows the real truth!

Dont forget that a world ruled by cruel criteria will always 

remain cruel in its judgments…

Stick to the real truth and the real world of 

Universalove/Universal justice…

If you have been used and prevented to do your dreams 

purposely by your husband/partner because he wants to be 

the only one who shines at your expanse ...as he believes its 

his birth right...and then dumped...for a younger model…

 

Know that many of us were used that way since 

unfortunately like in the story of the scorpio and the 

tortoise I copied above it is a familiar pattern in our society 

since it is sadly in the deep nature

of some males to abuse of what they believe is their birth 

right knowingly and purposely...

 

You might have been round the block a few times with 

different male partners using you in the

same way in spite of you doing all your efforts to honestly 

love and care...

Its sad but one positive thing you must remember is that you 

still tried to love and care

 whatever ...and this is beautiful in itself....its a deep success 

within you in spite of the

apparent failure this society might blame you for...

Dont become bitter...just let go ...this male partner  (or 

partners) were not worth it…

Like in the story of the scorpio and the tortoise I posted 

above...

 know his sting cant kill you because you are protected by 

YOUR OWN TRUE LOVING NATURE WITHIN 

UNIVERSALOVE and YOU CAN STILL KEEP 

SWIMMING!

Shake your back and carry on!

 Smile even if his young wife and himself keep saying big 

lies about you...

Whatever this corrupt society does or say about you...

Universalove/Source Divine knows the real truth!

SMILE BECAUSE A GREAT REWARD IS AWAITING 

YOU FROM OUR MOTHER NATURE OUR DIVINE 

MOTHER and CHRIST !

UNIVERSALOVE/SOURCE DIVINE LOVES YOU

for all the good you secretly do and will reward you forever 

and ever!

MANY MATURE FEMALES STARTED A GREAT 

CHANGE IN OUR SOCIETY

AFTER BEING DUMPED UNFAIRLY THIS WAY 

AND 

BY KEEPING SMILING

AND LOVING....

THEY INSPIRED BILLIONS OF INDIVIDUALS....

They are our spiritual mothers and we love them!

The Universe loves them and honor them!

It is praise to them that our planet is still alive even though

in pain!

Much love to all

sister lucy